Being a mom is one of the most satisfying and rewarding feelings in the world. Parents have a crucial role to play when it comes to the development of their child. Being a stay at home mom allows me to be able to help my child grow emotionally, physically, socially, and intellectually. I am very grateful that I am allowed to do this because; in today’s day and age women are working full time positions just to help make ends meet.

It’s not easy to make the decision to be a stay-at-home mom for some. In today’s economical world some women have to work, but rather they didn’t, and some women want to work while others get to stay at home with their children. My husband and I made the decision before our baby boy was born that I would be a stay at home mother. The role that parents play in their children’s life is very important, especially for those first five years. My husband works hard and supports us extremely well and we do this by living beneath our means. We don’t go purchase every new thing that comes out, nor do we have to have every material thing you can think of, so in essence, this allows us to be able to live very comfortably.

My husband enjoys playing golf and plays as much as he can during the summer months. I like to buy a new thing here and there, so I do that, but we try not to overspend and that’s what puts us ahead. By not overspending and just doing a few things here and there allows me to be able to be a stay at home mom, we still get to do things we enjoy, but the most important thing in our lives is our little boy. My husband gets to spend a lot of time with our son and I am so grateful for this because, it’s very important that the child forms a great bond with both parents. We have wonderful teamwork and I believe this to be very important in life, especially when raising a child.

As for our little guy, he is very happy, secure, and venturesome. He loves his routine. Every morning he flashes me a great big smile and is ready to start his day. We spend each and every day together watching videos, eating breakfast, lunch and dinner with snacks in between, we play, spend time learning, we walk outside, we go to the park, we attend a jamboree class with other children his age, etc. To be able to be there constantly for my son, no words could express my gratitude. There is nothing as special as this. Everyday is something new and exciting.

The interesting part of being a stay at home mom is that you can still maximize your potential in other areas as well:

1. Taking advantage of nap time is where my time to focus on time, energy and creativity kicks in. I am able to accomplish career desires by creating small amounts of time and utilizing plenty of creativity. I’ve created a program for young teens and devised a curriculum for the class I now teach on some weekends. Guess what? The class only runs an hour and a half. That’s all. Daddy watches little Marcello while I teach. By the time Little Marcello turns five, and in school full-time, my program will have expended which would allow me to work while he’s in school and be home in time to pick him up from school. Sometimes its hard balancing career and being a stay at home mom, but working around your schedule and using your creativity can drive you to your fullest potential. The first thing to think about is what do you like to do? Then, go from there.

2. Get your alone time. It’s important for every woman and man to get their alone time. Do what you enjoy. Do something that doesn’t involve work. If you like to play golf, go play golf. Watch a movie, read a book, shop, or go to the spa. Try to do something you enjoy at least once a week.

3. Set goals. The more goals you accomplish the more self-esteem you will have. Make goals, realistic goals and strive to accomplish them. Do something little each day to get you closer to your achievements. Make your dreams come true. Work towards them.

4. Keep a journal of your accomplishments and difficulties. Discover how to overcome your difficulties and turn them into accomplishments.

5. Make a date with your husband at least once a month. Get a sitter and go out to a fancy restaurant and go see a movie after. Go buy something sexy.

6. Find time to exercise. Even if it’s for ten minutes, here and there. It all counts! Keep your mind, body and spirit fresh. You can exercise while you’re cooking, be creative with it and watch the pounds come off.

7. Once a month pamper yourself. Do your hair, nails, toe nails. Get yourself all dolled up.

8. Keep yourself organized. If you find yourself becoming easily frustrated because every time you open the refrigerator door something falls out, or things are breaking, or the phone rings off the hook and the bills are scattered all over the table, etc. You know what I’m talking about; create a list to keep yourself organized. Find out what works for you. Get the refrigerator fixed; go buy a bill box, clear out the clutter. Create ways to keep your life organized.

9. Set up doctors, dentist appointments. Do it in advanced, get everything all set for your kids, spouse and don’t forget about you. Nothing is more important than health.

10. BE THANKFUL FOR ALL YOU HAVE. Tell your children you love them, tell your spouse you love them and your family you love them.

There are many ways to keep yourself balanced. Work with your husband. Teamwork allows many great things to come your way. Take great care of your children and be there for them, and make time for yourself, family and friends and all of your goals.

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