Life is 90% attitude

Sunday 23 November 2008 @ 7:47 pm

What is extremely important when it comes to changing any aspect of your life?  For some, that might be quitting smoking.  For others, it may be losing weight, changing careers or leaving a bad relationship.

ATTITUDE!

That’s right.  I learned something awhile back that’s changed my perspective on virtually every aspect of life.  Maybe you’ve heard the saying as well.

“Life is 90% attitude.”

The viewpoint goes something like this.  There are things in our life that we can control.  There are things in our life that we can’t control.  What we can control in either situation is how we perceive the situation.  Is it good or bad?  Postive or negative?

I think a lot of our perception of what we deem a bad situation stems way back to when we were children.  So many of us have or had authoritarian parents who used a strict discipline system for child-rearing that focused more on the negative than the positive.

When we did something great, we probably received some kudos, kisses and “ad-a-boys.”  However, that positive reinforcement didn’t last nearly as long as the one-hour lecture on why we should have received a better grade.

I don’t know, maybe your house was different.  The point is this.  We were geared toward thinking that mistakes were bad.  In fact, mistakes are imperative for growth.  When we make a mistake, we have the opportunity to learn and grow from the experience IF that’s how we choose to perceive the situation.

So, back to the attitude is 90% statement…

If life is 90% attitude, then it’s imperative to strive for a positive attitude.  How can we do this?  For one, look at life’s disappointments or mistakes as opportunities rather than negative things.  What did you learn?  What did you take with you?  Where can you go with it now?

Another way to encourage a positive attitude is to quit stressing over the little things.  I know this is hard to do, but you’ll find it extremely liberating if you are able to set aside the little annoyances in life such as heavy traffic or a rainy day when you’d planned an outdoor activity.  Go with the flow!

And last but not least, look at problems as though they were merely “situations.”  Don’t attach yourself so much to every difficulty.  Look at it more pragmatically and figure out a way to work through it.  “This too shall pass” could be your new attitude.

Think now for a minute how all of this might change your outlook on quitting smoking.

1.  You’ve merely made a mistake by smoking.  Learn, grow and move forward.

2.  Don’t sweat the small stuff!  Smoking has become so entwined in your life that you may be worrying and wondering how you’ll enjoy your coffee or glass of wine without your cigarette.  You’ll find other ways!

3.  This too shall pass…. those nic fits only last a short, short time.  With a little help from Ciga Cease, you’ll get through it!  I promise!

I hope this information helped you as much as it helped me years ago!

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The Law Of Attraction and Determining Your Lifes Path

Wednesday 19 November 2008 @ 10:36 am

According to the law of attraction, our thoughts become real, so whatever we are thinking about now, will eventuate sooner or later. The law of attraction makes it possible for your thoughts to become real and eventually materialize those thoughts into your life.

While there is much proof showing that the law of attraction does determine to some extent the kind of life that you lead, a lot of people are still skeptical of the validity of this concept. In fact, several scientific studies have been conducted dedicated to the discovery of a real connection between the law of attraction and the quality of life that people have in general.

People’s thoughts, ideas, decisions they make, and their emotions, are all affected by their social environment and surroundings. While it’s true that cold hard facts are sometimes used to settle a mental conflict or to provide a solution to a problem, most of the decision-making process relies on the intuition and attitude of the person in question.

Law Of Attraction and Your Body

For example, a typically shy individual can greatly boost his self-esteem by making use of the law of attraction, and trying to draw more confidence into his personality. As long as you think that you are a confident individual, your mind will eventually take this as a fact, and make your body act in accordance to this new idea.

The law of attraction is far more powerful than just simply fixing a few personality issues. The law of attraction is always working, not just for individual situations but even to the extent of making changes to the entire human race.

Typically, people are drawn to other people who have awesome personalities or have had great success in their lives. It is unfortunate though that some people are easily influenced by the negative factors and people that surround them in their daily lives.

If you so desire, you can completely control the way the law of attraction can work for you. If you want to have a successful life, you should alter the way you think and fill your mind with thoughts of happiness and success. In time, you will be able to enyoy the successes as it becomes a very real part of your life. Incorporate the law of attraction steps into your life.

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Conversational Hypnosis and Cultivating Success can they be linked?

Tuesday 7 October 2008 @ 3:07 pm

Can Conversational Hypnosis Be Linked to Cultivating Success?

Can Conversational Hypnosis Be Linked to Cultivating Success? The approach of Conversational Hypnosis Persuasion is one of today’s most celebrated Hypnosis approaches. It is quite powerful in persuading a person to do something that is otherwise objectionable to them. Conversational Hypnosis has been rumored to be linked with undesirable avtivities this may be true and should we be wary.

Even if some regard it as a negative thing, it is undeniably effective in counseling sessions to help patients discover a new way of living without fears and phobias, conversational hypnosis persuasion helps increase self-confidence, and helps some patients to positively change their view of the future.

It’s been found that in todays competative world of learning students are being helped to learn and retain more information by using Conversational Hypnosis techniques. Several studies have been made and the higher percentage showed that students learn faster and retain the information almost indefinitely when conversational hypnosis persuasion techniques are used.

Some community leaders are also using conversational hypnosis persuasion to influence entire neighborhoods to learn to cooperate with other to work together to help bring community issues to resolution. Immediate transformation that otherwise would have taken years with traditional ways has been brought about with a one time speech conveyed with Conversational Hypnosis.

There are even some courses offered that use conversational hypnosis persuasion to increase the effectiveness of self-improvement and personal development.  Envision a future where people can swiftly do away with bad habits and replace them with healthy, positive ones merely by talking to yourself.

Just like any tool, conversational hypnosis persuasion can be used to positively or negatively.  It is the discretion of the person using the tool which path he is going to take.  Even the commercial uses of conversational hypnosis persuasion can be a good thing if the products sold are actually useful and designed to help the people who are going to use them.

By now you have probably found your own reasons for wanting to use conversational hypnosis persuasion to improve not only your life but the lives of others as well.  Again be reminded that this toll can bring both help and harm, depending on how you utilize it.

Through learning about conversational hypnosis persuasion yourself, not only will you be able to tell if someone is using the technique negatively on you, you would also be able fight off subliminal commands from other hypnotists. Conversational hypnosis persuasion will also learn how to quickly transform every relationship you have so that you get more of what you want with no resistance whatsoever.

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The Power Of Conversational Hypnosis

Tuesday 16 September 2008 @ 8:25 pm

About Conversational Hypnosis

Hypnosis is an art, and to become a master in this form of art you must go beyond being an average Conversational Hypnotist and create a masterpiece that is to be called your own. Once you have accomplished this feat you will truly be a part of the Hypnosis world and holding your own and being thoroughly knowledgeable about Conversational Hypnosis.

Conversational Hypnosis has unique aspects that make it different from other forms of Hypnosis. Your goal will be to gather all your knowledge about Conversational Hypnosis and refine it into the art.

When getting a subject into trance it is quite important to master the fine points of the language you will use along with the hypnotic theme. There is also a need for you to perfect the type of atmosphere you will want to create for your subject. You must also master ways to create tension using authority strategies in order to put the unconscious mind into a functional state.

Now these should need and refined until it becomes the fine art that is about Conversational Hypnosis. Step one in this area of refinement will be to introduce the hypnotic gaze induction. The entire hypnosis process requires a purpose and this is one of the main skills you will use. One of the main things you should remember about Conversational Hypnosis and hypnotic gaze induction is that these are very powerful and you would do well to keep that in mind.

The power of the hypnotic gaze induction is under your control and for you to use at your own discretion, it would do you well to remember how powerful this is. The four stage protocol and the hypnosis gaze induction will add structure to your hypnosis. It is vital that you command attention to create an unconscious responce and use it to direct you listner. All four stages of the hypnotic gaze induction must be completed by your subject and this must be your aim.

As soon as you have perfected the technique of using the 4 Stage Protocol and have mastered everything about Conversational Hypnosis it is regarded safe to move onto combining the sixty second hypnotist and hypnotic gaze induction. Combining techniques is a sure fire way to make your very own technique, a masterpiece. Keep it simple, start by using rapport techniques and as you use your language with the hypnotic gaze induction you will start to see results.

In the hypnotic gaze induction you are going to want to focus in on several things. First, you will need to remember that in achieving a successful hypnosis gaze induction holding the subject’s gaze is key. A clear and calm gaze is quite important for you to maintain. Never must you allow the subject to see, feel or discern that you are uncomfortable with the situation.

This basically tells you everything about Conversational Hypnosis and the techniques you can combine with the basic steps. Each hypnotist develops his own style in performing the art of hypnosis. Now that you have learned the basics about Conversational Hypnosis it is your turn to create your own hypnotic masterpiece.

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